Ans :
Note : My blog may be dealing with different situation as of yours. But, by Reading it all you may get core idea about how to tackle your situation of guilt.
Note : My blog may be dealing with different situation as of yours. But, by Reading it all you may get core idea about how to tackle your situation of guilt.
some of time our beloved ones separate from us some how .then
in that case we say how cruel behavior I had with that person .in that case we
see our self as a culprit and consider our self responsible for that separation
or you can say we have somewhere guilt inside us. Now how to eliminate this
guilt in such a situation .So, to eliminate this guilt u should think about the
situation when u too have tolerated that cruel behavior by some other . and ask
yourself whether u were felling sorry for urself at that time. Ans is No…So why
? felling a sorry or having a guilt for that person to whom u think u had cruel
behavior. You should understand the happiness and sadness are a part of every
individual life and also of your life. Neither u can eliminate this sadness from
ur life nor from another’s life . it is a harsh truth of life and everyone
should become strong and learn to handle
this sadness . Also realize that not only ur beloved ones have to experience
this cruel behavior but u too. And take it lightly rather than blaming urself
or any other.to clarify my sentences more deeply I want to give u an example
suppose there is a woman that is very
innocent and caring to her new family but rarely visit to her mother home even
when she request due to her reserve
nature that is in her genes u say.and suddenly she come to know her mother pass
away . Now , suppose she is finding herself culprit behind her mother’s death. What
she does ?...she must recollect the experience where her daughter is cruel with
her and ask herself whether she think her daughter is her culprit ? . the Ans
to this is …..No. women still love’s her daughter …So, u should know pain and
sufferings are the part of everyone’s life and there is no one’s guilt behind
it.it’s all natural.What best u can do is …u can control ur words and speak
sweet and polite with others ,join Ngo of your choice and help the people of ur
choice.
IRRELEVANT
Everyone leaves some kind of memories behind in the mind of beloved ones.....even abnormal child,pets and other creatures....it's not a big thing and a new thing ..And allowing our self to have a look at those memories is a kind of an invitation to guilt and problems.Learn to stay free from unnecessary tensions and worry and make ur life more productive for urself and society.
Terms & Condition Apply: Theory can change from situation to situation.
IRRELEVANT
Everyone leaves some kind of memories behind in the mind of beloved ones.....even abnormal child,pets and other creatures....it's not a big thing and a new thing ..And allowing our self to have a look at those memories is a kind of an invitation to guilt and problems.Learn to stay free from unnecessary tensions and worry and make ur life more productive for urself and society.
Terms & Condition Apply: Theory can change from situation to situation.
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