Ideal nature of Public behind us irrespective of relations is just as that of an audience where you are an actor

A month ago my face was spoiled by pimples and i was just fed up and so at that time i was taking each and every precaustion that was present in google .[Anyway Correct Treatment is Here] . But due to my improper treatment my pimples were not going away from my face ...................then i have taken even more stronger natural treatment possible ......where i was not eating any sabzi containing oil and my grandmother was saying me Wahmi Wahmi........which i was hating later when they told me i will got mad if i continue this behaviour.................after some days i criticize them how they dare to demotivate me by comparing me with mad person..............Now today my sister was woring a sweater of mine which i loved a lot ,she is careless .........suddenly i noticed her puting sweater hood in her mouth ...............so in sake of framing some reason...........i said dont wore my sweater as in that case i may have a communicable diesease in case you have !.....suddenly at that time our father come to our room and ask what happen ? what you are talking about? she said ............he is saying I am having a disease and so not wear my sweater............and said Now you are Wahmi........my father said you are serious i know in case you were kidding so in that case your this behaviour was never been an issue..............................................................................I know i was not having another option to take my sweater back .....so this was the only option i have..................By the Way the moral of that whole story is that Person or any other creature no matter who is he or she in your relation .That person can make out what he is getting through your appearance which in 99% case is framed by society (it can be your sister,brother,grandmother too).....................majority rule wins here !! ..........and so no one can feel your inner self as no one trust on oneself and everyone trust what others say..............................In majority of cases that why you see no one go alone for shopping the clothes for oneself and everyone takes his friend or brother sister with them.......................This is the inbuilt human relationship which conveys human belief more on others (majority) decision rather than their own decisions the reason behind that is the fear of failure (failure of non acceptance,low score etc).

Q What if person belief on what holistic he thinks rather than listening to what others say?

then in that case by his above positive holistic behavior he can able to visualize internal self instead of appearance

-->one can build good friends which always need his presence in happy situation of their life.

-->one can turn poison into sweet

-->one can perceive pain as a challenge that can be solved

and etc